In Her Own Words
About Her
I'm a Christian woman. Not here to play games. Want to find the person whom I can share my life with. I see a relationship as a team effort. I'm someone who radiates calmness and sincerity. I'm emotionally mature, can communicate honestly and not afraid of deep conversation.
About Her Ideal Match
My ideal life partner is someone with whom I feel safe—both emotionally and practically. Someone who holds my hand in public and my heart in private. They show love through small, everyday gestures: a message to ask if I got home safely, a gentle touch when words aren’t needed.
They plan with me, speak honestly about money, the future, and responsibilities, and see a relationship as a team effort. Conflict is handled with respect—not silence or harsh words, but solutions.
Someone who radiates calmness and sincerity. They are emotionally mature, able to communicate honestly, and not afraid of deep conversations. They truly listen—not just to respond, but to understand. They respect my boundaries, value my individuality, and don’t try to change me.
They have a soft heart but stand strong in what they believe. They show love through actions, not just words, and are consistent—I never have to guess where I stand with them. Someone who can laugh with me, sit in silence, dream, and grow together.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria (Baileys Muckleneuk), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
44 | |
Star Sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
155cm (5' 1.0") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Finance | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Pretoria (Gauteng, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
40 - 54 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
169cm (5' 6.5") - 181cm (5' 11.3") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Goofy |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outspoken; Realistic; Sarcastic |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Books: |
Fantasy; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Cooking; Healthy living; Photography; Reading |
Sport Involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Fine Dining; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Gluten-free; Lactose-free; Sugar-free |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Volunteering |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I don't have any family |
Family Closeness: |
I don't have any family! |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair |
Work Aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |