In His Own Words
About Him
I'm looking for an open-minded friend, whom I can spend time with, grab a cup of coffee, go for a walk etc. In my opinion, we can just hang out together, on later dates and if the unfathomable 'chemistry' rhymes for us then we take it to the next level -
It is with my future partner and friends that my loyalty lies.
I like to think I'm a rational thinker even though there is a big difference between what I consider justified and what suits me! I am capable of keeping issues separate in my mind. OK, so I am philosophical, so what else?
My private time and joys? Well, being without a partner I like to go walking, swimming, boogie boarding (gave up trying to learn how to surf properly) -I'm not Mr. Fit, just like keeping healthy! - At home, being slightly introverted, I like curling up with a good thriller and...., soft music, perhaps (hopefully!) a glass of red or beer.
Being single offers many blessings and freedom, however, for me, a life shared is better and more enriching. I'm out of a long-term relationship and value, caring, openness, trust, and good values very highly.
The arts provide joy, and if you paint, sing etc or even just appreciate it, that is a big Plus for to share with me (no, I am not an artist myself). I am a non-smoker and smoking is as much a 'deal breaker' as is rap music and tattoos, or people making their body into a pincushion. Pubs are fun at times but I'd much rather open a bottle of red at home and listen to what you have to say, and if you don't feel like talking then let us watch some Netflix or read. My idea of hell is being caught in a sports bar with TVs blaring.
I think no religion has a monopoly over God. The human spirit is precious and my partner will know that she has become precious to me - but I want to start off just with friendship with someone to laugh and appreciate what life throws at us.
About His Ideal Match
You are, open-minded, rational thinker, bright with the confidence to open your heart after you get to know the person.
You are not a sports fanatic nor inactive as you enjoy the outdoors. My ideal partner should have the grace so that we
allow each other some time out without Trust being threatened..
There are so many wonderful times to be had - why miss out?
An intelligent and warm personality with a smile that melts me would entice me after a while to move beyond just friendship.
- have to start somewhere so a date is needed not so?
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Uvongo, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
69 | |
Star Sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
171cm (5' 7.3") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
Dutch; English; German | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Finance | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Europe; Namibia; South Africa; Argentina; Thailand; Australia; New Zealand | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
44 - 63 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
148cm (4' 10.3") - 182cm (5' 11.7") | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Intelligent; Mild; Realistic; Shy |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My swimming trunks / bikini |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Jazz; New Age; Opera; Punk; Rock |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Computer & video games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Reading; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Camping; Canoeing; Chess; Flying / Gliding; Rowing; Sailing; Surf skiing/kayaking; Swimming |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; Thai; Vietnamese |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Power; Tattoo(s) |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Honesty: |
Very |
