In Her Own Words
About Her
I’m a widow who has loved deeply and learned to be resilient through all of life's challenges and surprises. I value kindness, laughter, honesty, and meaningful connection. Grateful for life’s lessons, I’m open to companionship, friendship, shared adventures, and building something warm, respectful, and hopeful in this next chapter.
About Her Ideal Match
I’m looking for an emotionally mature, kind partner who respects my past without competing with it. Someone steady, honest, and patient, who values communication, shared values, laughter, and building a meaningful connection at a comfortable pace. I’m looking for someone with moderate or progressive values who prioritizes kindness, empathy, and respect. Shared values matter to me, especially compassion, inclusivity, and respect for others. I will not be a good match for someone with strong conservative political views.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
United States | |
Location: |
Fallon, Nevada | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
47 | |
Star Sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
5' 3" (160cm) | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair Colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
35 - 48 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 7" (169cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; Several tattoos |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Shy; Silly |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty; Kindness; Patience |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Purple |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Muzak; New Age; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Romance; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Board games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Shopping; Writing poetry; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Athletics; Cycling; Fishing; Hiking; Rowing; Stand Up Paddleboarding; Walking |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Lactose-free; Sugar-free |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Power |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a month |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Backpacking around the globe |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |