In His Own Words
About Him
Buitelugman, oorlander en reliekjagter met ’n liefde vir avontuur en stilte in die natuur. Ek geniet fotografie, vlieghengel en projekte wat omgewingsherstel bevorder.
My ander passies sluit permakultuur, volhoubare energie, kookkuns en die ontwerp van unieke cocktails in. Ek leef vir lewendige musiek, 80’s‑treffers en goeie kos saam met goeie geselskap.
About His Ideal Match
Elegansie
• Selfrespek
• Waardigheid
• Emosionele beskikbaarheid
• Gereelde en konsekwente kommunikasie
• Konsekwentheid en stabiliteit
• Soortgelyke belangstellings
• Liefde en metgeselskap
• Vertroue en eerlikheid
• Finansiële versoenbaarheid
• ’n Gedeelde visie van sukses
• Verenigbaarheid in die dimensies van intimiteit
• Die vervulling van verwagtinge wat saam geskep word
• Die ruimte om verskillende prioriteite te hê
• Die hantering van onversoenbare verskille
• Gelykheid in rolle binne die huishouding
• Verenigbaarheid met vriende en familie
• Die vermoë om konflik te hanteer
• Die vermoë om eksterne teenspoed en krisisse saam te hanteer
• Respek en openheid
• Fisiese en psigologiese gesondheid
• Om mekaar ruimte te gee
• Die vermoë om verandering deur die verhouding te omhels
• Die vermoë om te vergewe
• Om mekaar opreg te waardeer
• Subtiele flikkering en verleidelikheid
• Aanspreklike of aanloklike eienskappe
• Emosionele ondersteuning: Om vir mekaar daar te wees in moeilike tye
• Gedeelde aktiwiteite: Om dinge saam te doen wat albei geniet
• Persoonlike groei: Om mekaar aan te moedig om te groei en individuele doelwitte na te streef
• Humor en pret: Om die verhouding lig en genietbaar te hou
• Buigsaamheid
• Grense: Om mekaar se grense en persoonlike ruimte te respekteer
• Ek is jammer
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria (Grootfontein Country Estate), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
60 | |
Star Sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
183cm (6' 0.0") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Grey | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Centurion; Pretoria; Bronkhorstspruit; Midrand (Gauteng, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
18 - 66 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
160cm (5' 3.0") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; Partnered; It's Complicated | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Smooth |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Intelligent; Outgoing; Realistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Outdoorsy (I'm usually dressed for the bush) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; Fiction; History; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Educational; News |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Documentary |
Interests: |
Gardening; Investing; Photography; Reading; Woodworking; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Camping; Fishing; Horse Riding; Squash; Table Tennis; Walking; Water skiing |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Greek; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work only a few hours a week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |



