In His Own Words
About Him
I’m not here to play the numbers game. I want the spark that lingers, the love that grows, the laughter that fills a room long after night. I listen more than I speak, find strength in quiet moments, and I don’t need drama—just a love that sings out loud. I feel deeply but laugh with ease, and I’m unafraid of quiet nights where peace replaces noise. I make you safe being yourself—no masks, no games. If you want someone awake inside, who loves with heart and quiet pride, maybe we’re meant to meet.
About His Ideal Match
I’m not the tallest in the room, but I’ll lift your heart. No games, no masks—just a guy who’s real and who cares. I cook, I laugh, I take my time, and I find joy in simple things: walks on the beach, a good song, a quiet night, a silly grin. I work with my hands, listen closely, love my dog, and enjoy watching life unfold. I don’t need sparks that fade—I want a fire that feels like home. Just plain me, in worn-out jeans, with hopeful eyes and a heart that’s free. If you’re real and kind, you’ll understand—and that’s all I need.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Northern Suburbs, Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
51 | |
Star Sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
165cm (5' 5.0") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Balding | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Technical Diploma | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
40 - 46 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
155cm (5' 1.0") - 175cm (5' 8.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Regular; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
It's a distant memory |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Goofy |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A cruiser |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Mild; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Shy; Silly; Stable; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Motoring; Nature / Wildlife; Reality shows; Sport |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Making Music; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Sculpting; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Athletics; Cricket; Hiking; Motorsport; Pool; Rugby; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |