In His Own Words
About Him
Aanvanklik skynbaar en miskien rerig ietwat in of teruggetrokke, 'n introvert. Namate heel oop en toeganklik. Tatoeermerke maak my baie ongemaklik, my gees wil n lap en seep soek en hulle probeer af was.
I can do small talk if I have to but prefer deeper, real connections getting to know the real person absent of masks or walls.
Ek hou van skryf, nuwe goed leer en kennis opdoen, van vrae vra, dink, ontleed en tot logies rasionele gevolgtrekkings kom. Ek vrek oor sing en musiek, maar kan self nie rerig n instrument bespeel nie. Ek probeer my sg innerlike kind laat uitkom vir pret, maar hy's soms sku! Ek hou van stap in die natuur en diere en mis die eertydse plattelandse en plaaslewe. Ek hou van met hout werk, nou en dan metaalwerk/sweis en self klippe of stene op mekaar plak met sement. Ek hou uiteindelik baie van gesels en deel, maar soms is stille saamwees ook lekker? Ek hou van tuisfliek, sushi, pizza, braai en sien uit om weer n lamsboud te bak in die oond. Ag, eintlik hou ek kortweg van leef, voluit?
My outlook on life is positive yet rational, logical and realistic. Still I dream of a better world and hope I can contribute to that somehow. Despite being a bit secluded and selectively social I love people and abhor suffering especially when caused by other people.
About His Ideal Match
Dis moeilik! Dieselfde waardes, dis ononderhandelbaar. Wat waardes is of beteken is om tussen ons uitgewerk te word.
Compatible emotional and intellectual connection. Not necessarily exactly the same but compatible and complimentary at least.
Ook so betreffende belangstellings en stokperdjies - anders maar aanvullend en op een of ander manier, soos tyd en ruimte sonder n gevoel van verwydering en gepaardgaande verwyt, dalk saamwees maar totaal met ander goed doenig wees.
Ek poog om oorwegend niks van enigiemand te verwag nie dan is ek nooit telleurgesteld nie, maar dikwels verras.
But in intimate relations like family (wife and kids) I do and have to have expectations - authenticity, therefor honesty and loyalty. Infidelity a definite door slam and no going back.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Roodepoort, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star Sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
172cm (5' 7.7") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair Colour: |
Grey | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Artistic / Musical / Writer | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
50 - 58 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 166cm (5' 5.4") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Greying; Grey; White | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
German; Dutch | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Straight; Curly; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Outspoken; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Rock |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; Crime; History; Non-fiction; Religious; Romance; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Horror; Mystery; Romance; War |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Making Music; Meditation; Photography; Reading; Singing; Woodworking; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Bowling; Camping; Canoeing; Dancesport; Golf; Ice Skating; Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Seafood; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I'm an only child |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
Anarchic |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |