In His Own Words
About Him
Who am I?
⦁ I am a Leader. My name is Bernard, some call me Brob.
⦁ I not only identify problems, but also provide solutions.
⦁ I not only provide guidelines, but I am also an active participant in making things happen.
⦁ I like to be on time in everything I do.
⦁ I am more productive when something is scheduled.
⦁ I do not give up easily when something means a lot to me.
⦁ I like to be prepared.
⦁ I strongly believe in balance, which means having a relationship with yourself, spending time with yourself, reflecting, and loving yourself and also having a Relationships with others, connect with them, spend time with them, and support them.
⦁ I know when it is time to have fun and when to be serious. I believe in healthy communication: it comes with respect and give each other time to speak and listen and remember to identify what the underlying problem is when conflict arises and never to make your partner the problem. I never have been married, don't have Children, and don't have a criminal record.
About His Ideal Match
Physical Attraction:
⦁ I must be a little bit taller than her
⦁ Her hair is not shorter than shoulder length
⦁ She is not overweight. My colour Skintone, My Race
⦁ She always looks Simple: No make-up, no tattoos, no wigs, no nail polish, no long nails, no earrings, and knows how to clothe herself modestly in public.
Emotional Attraction:
⦁ High level of self-awareness and tools and strategies to navigate through tough challenges wisely. (Emotional Intelligence)
⦁ Open-minded, Respectful, Honest
⦁ Clear on her Boundaries
⦁ Clear on her Values and Morals
⦁ Clear on her Strengths and Weaknesses
⦁ She can regulate her emotions (her emotions is not all over the place, and she can control her tongue)
⦁ She is not talkative, but she can talk. We respect each other's differences and appreciate our similarities.
⦁ Have a relationship with Christ and God’s Word and NOT with an Organization ( Church)
( because all Organizations make a person close-minded, preventing them from seeing the whole Truth: Read Pagan Christianity and Reimagining Church by Frank Viola and George Barna) Also, listen to Tom Wadsworth's Playlist on YouTube: 'The Assembly: How We Got Worship Wrong.'
⦁ Someone who wants to build a Christian Home with me: where we discuss controversial topics in Christianity, and learn to have Church at home, like the first-century Christians did. ( 1 Cor 1:11 / Romans 16:5 / Acts 2:2/ Acts 20:20 / 1Cor 16: 19/ Col 4:15/ Philem1:2/ John 4:20-21
Deal-breaker:
⦁ Smoker, Drinker, Clubber, High Maintenance, Spender, Have Children, Divorced, Bold head, and Low Self-awareness, No Modesty, Disrespect
NOTE: If your profile describes so little about you and what you want, for me, it says your level of Self-awareness is low, and that is a Dealbreaker for me.
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Bloemfontein, Free State, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
30 | |
Star Sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
Ask me later | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Mixed | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
27 - 38 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Coloured; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Goofy |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Optimistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Honesty |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park |
Music Preferences: |
Gospel / Religious |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Business; Religious; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Interests: |
Investing; Reading; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
Bored to death |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time Online: |
Once or twice a week |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Backpacking around the globe |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Very |