In His Own Words
About Him
O O O
BAIE BELANGRIK: Ek is nie hier vir 'n blits troue nie, maar om eers 'n langtermyn vriendskap met wedersydse respek en vertroue te skep en tyd toe te laat om die toekoms te bepaal.
Met dit uit die weg geruim en jy is nog hier, lees gerus verder om jou prentjie oor my klaar in te kleur..
'n Breë skouer. Soek altyd na die mooi in mense en kry die jammer wat lelik toelaat om van hulle besit te neem.
Na al die voetspore in die sand wat deur die see toegespoel is, die heen en weer gerol van die ou klippie deur die branders van die lewe, het min rowwe plekke oorgebly.. die ou siel is glad geskuur en geslyp.
Tot ek maar net nog 'n ou sandkorreltjie op die strand is, wil ek graag weer 'n klippie langs my voel en sien rondrol, wat saam die branders van die lewe trotseer. 'n Klippie wat saam die mooi in mekaar te voorskyn laat kom - totdat ons Skepper besluit ons is nou reg vir Sy spesiale versameling.
Ek is 'n Christen, positief, saggeaard, goeie humor - wat my soms in 'n penarie laat beland as dit nie gesnap word nie (sommige mense is net te ernstig).
Op die stadium van die geveg is daar nie meer tyd vir die klein jakkalsies nie. Dit gaan nie meer oor my nie, maar oor my geliefdes, familie, vriende en medemens.
My dag is gemaak as ek 'n glimlag op iemand anders se gesig kan sien en so die lewetjie met 'n huppelstappie aan te pak. Ek voel innerlik versterk, en nederig in Jesus as ek iemand in pyn 'n drukkie kan gee om te help vasbyt in die gewoel van die lewe.
Hou van diere, sport, buitelewe en die natuur. Kan nog om die blok draf. Kampeer, visvang, mooi plekke verken. Uiteet, ouma se boerekos, brou in die kombuis, braai, pap maak en potjie brou. Kreatief, tuinmaak, houtwerk, fotografie en rekenaars.
Ek weet op die regte tyd sal ek langs daai spesiale klippie, wat iewers rondrol, beland om saam die toekoms aan te durf.
About His Ideal Match
O O O
Sy is 'n wedergebore Christen.
'n Gesinsmens. Positiewe uitkyk (iemand wat die glas half vol sien in plaas van half leeg), nie deel van die probleem wil wees nie maar deel van die oplossing. Kreatief, goeie humor, omgee vir ander, lief vir kosmaak, hou van reis, buitelewe, kampeer en lief vir diere.
Ek moet eerlik wees dat 'n vrou wat omsien na haar voorkoms vir my uitstaan - solank dit nie 'n obsessie is nie. Sy moet ewe tuis in 'n aandrok, kaalvoet in 'n jean of loslap in die tuin wees.
Jaloesie is uit, vertroue is in. Sy moet weet en my vertrou dat as sy die klippie langs my se plek ingeneem het, sy daar gaan wees tot ons sandkorreltjies is. Wedersydse vertroue en saam slyp aan die rowwe plekke is "key".
Sy moet kan lag, waardeer, ontvang en gee. Liefde en vreugde vol. Vredemaker en kop op my skouer mens.
Sy moet besef hierdie is die begin van ons saam stappie na 'n mooi, vrede en liefdevolle toekoms met Jesus as ons anker..
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Helderberg (Gordons Baai), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
69 | |
Star Sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
173cm (5' 8.1") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Technical Diploma | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Solvent |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Europe; Asia; Namibia; South Africa; Canada; United States; Costa Rica; Puerto Rico; Colombia | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
50 - 67 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Struggling; Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Brown |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Pop / Top 40 |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; History; Religious; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Educational; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sport; Talk shows; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Romance; Westerns |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Business news; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Photography; Sculpting; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Athletics; Badminton; Birdwatching; Camping; Canoeing; Chess; Cricket; Cycling; Dancesport; Darts; Fishing; Golf; Hiking; Mountain biking; Pool; Rowing; Rugby; Running; Shooting; Snooker; Squash; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Volleyball; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Fast food; Fine Dining; German; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none; Diabetic |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Gardening |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Bird(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Erotica; Long hair |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Flirting; Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Very |
