In His Own Words
About Him
I’m a grounded, God-fearing man who believes real Christianity is a relationship, not a label. Jesus isn’t part of my life—He’s the center of it.
I work in tech (cloud engineering / AWS world), which means I’m logical, solution-driven, and calm under pressure… but my heart belongs to God and meaningful conversations.
I value depth over noise, truth over trends, and purpose over popularity. I’m not perfect, but I’m surrendered—and that matters to me.
What I’m Passionate About
• Jesus & the Word of God
• Living with purpose and integrity
• Deep conversations that actually mean something
• Growth—spiritual, mental, and personal
• Using my life to reflect Christ, not just talk about Him
About His Ideal Match
A woman who genuinely loves Jesus and isn’t afraid of real faith. Someone kind, emotionally mature, and rooted in truth.
If your relationship with God comes first, everything else can be built the right way.
Bonus points if you value prayer, honesty, and a little laughter along the way 😉
Green Flags You’ll Have
✔ You love God more than the world
✔ You’re authentic, not performative
✔ You believe faith should be lived, not just posted
✔ You’re open to growth and real connection
Deal-Breakers (being honest here)
❌ Lukewarm faith
❌ Drama without accountability
❌ Playing games instead of building something real
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Benoni (Kempton Park), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
47 | |
Star Sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
164cm (5' 4.6") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair Colour: |
Red | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Ask me later | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Boksburg (Gauteng, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
33 - 50 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
155cm (5' 1.0") - 170cm (5' 6.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Body Art: |
Several tattoos |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Intelligent; Outgoing; Sarcastic; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Self-control; Tolerance |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Food: |
Indian; Italian; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Eco home in the bush |