In His Own Words
About Him
I live a full, wonderful and exhilarating life. I am happy to share that... but only in the presence of pure feminine intent. My occupation is beyond your wildest imagination... every woman's dream man.
Seriously though, I earnestly want to be around family (Both yours and mine)... a home filled with peace & love, children & dogs & whirling appliances... laughter, barking, shrieks of delight... balls bouncing, identifiable footsteps on wooden floors. Celebrations: birthdays, anniversaries, seasons, fudge day, cleavage day, family awards. To celebrate one of "us" or life itself. A busy home filled with flowers, veggies, furniture & foods; that I grew- or made for those loved inside it. I want to be with a girl that when we're apart; whether she's on the other side of the world or just in the room next door, we miss each other equally!
I receive all of you as woman. Not just your delicious bits but your mind, moods, whims, strength, feminine resolve, elegance & grace. I want the balance & imbalance you bring. I want the merging & mingling of our differences to result in both intellectual rhythm & spiritual perfection through sacred intimacy.
I’ll read your narrative here to try feel the warm depth of feminine essence through your use-, inflection & truth of your words. If I respond, I'm truly extending my hand out to you. So, I ask, for one moment, forget self-defeating gender roles. Reach back if there is something even mildly beautiful to you. Fear’s cold gift can only be- & always is; regret. If nothing else, I promise you truth, I will share deep love, I will always challenge you but simultaneously nourish your confidence & growth.
I am in awe of my Creator.
Mom will love me to bits... Dad will finally breathe a huge sigh of relief. Hopefully, your children: "He's the best thing to have ever happened to our Mother"
About His Ideal Match
I want effortless, joyfulness, playfulness. No drama ever, rather constructive-, academic- & nourishing exchange. Love sets free... so neither would seek to own, win, control or possess.
I know everyone has gone through things that have changed them in a way that they could never go back to being the person they once were; I accept that. It's happened to me. But skip me if you're even mildly bitter toward men. However, know that I'll kiss your scars, those on your body & those in your heart. Love is your life's priority over transient & fickle comfort. Don't mind quirky. Quirky's good. Like giggling at my girl's mildly embarrassing non-inhibition, endearing mannerisms & funny eccentricities. She's unusual, alive & incandescent!
You'll take my breath away with just a glance across an antique bookstore, a knowing smile at dinner, a cheeky wink whilst quarrelling or the most unladylike suggestion whispered during Swan Lake. Your soft kiss will leave me feeling like I'd been injected with pure oxytocin. You'd be able to share uninhibited, deep and endless tantric hedonism with me - Oh yes! (Exclaimed in a breathless whisper, loaded with exci....tation)
You laugh & smile, even in difficult times. Possesses absolute honesty, emotional maturity, self-confidence & a genuine sense of fairness. Vanity, self-centeredness, narrow mindedness, class awareness & mercenary motives send me running. You know the art of giving but of receiving graciously as well.
I will appreciate & respect you for your talents, gifts and perfections but I will truly love & treasure you more for your weaknesses, foibles & flaws. You'd always know you're cared for, safe & loved. My soul- my arms, are exceptionally welcoming, warm & strong. So if it is you, come sit quietly beside me now. Open my hand & see your name written. Exquisite redamancy awaits... The most beautiful of human conditions. Bliss.
PS: On the very important issue of trust... please don't ever leave me alone in a room with your tea cozy... I will try it on!
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Helderberg (Winelands), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
65 | |
Star Sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
174cm (5' 8.5") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair Colour: |
Shaved | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
45 - 65 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
144cm (4' 8.7") - 180cm (5' 10.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Other; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Below Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Struggling; Solvent; Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
I don't have one |
Intelligence: |
Intellectually Challenged |
Party Behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality Traits: |
Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Something my (grand)mother made me. |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Jazz; Rock |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
Business; History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Knitting; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sports: |
Archery; Cycling; Martial arts; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Walking |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Chinese; Indian; Italian; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Pace of Life: |
Out of control |
Time at Work: |
I DO have a bed in my office! |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've lost count |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
