In Her Own Words
About Her
I travel light, don't sweat the small stuff. I'm driven but chilled, stimulating but peaceful, humourous, playful but can be serious, I love laughing, thought provoking conversations, have a view on most things - & I'd love to know yours 😊
Love the outdoors, summer is my favourite season, love dogs, am told I have an infectious laugh, am successful in my career, energetic, love socialising but also like chill time, I enjoy life and have a positive outlook and upbeat energy, love all sorts of music, dancing and the theater.
Lastly, I am liberally minded, open to exploring different ways of thinking, beliefs and cultures and I have a range of friends to match, so if conservative is your middle name, we're probably not going to gel 😊
About Her Ideal Match
Someone who has a happy, upbeat, positive energy, loves animals (particularly dogs), is kind and caring, chilled but yet energetic, interesting to talk to, enjoys stimulating, thought provoking conversions and discussions, has a view on most things and is non - judgemental, has a great smile, is confident and can hold their own in a room full of people.
Last but not least, someone who wants to be with someone who compliments their life, not someone who completes them because they've pretty much got themselves together already and are comfortable & happy in their own space.
Other than that, it is all in the chemistry 😊
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Atlantic Seaboard, Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star Sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
167cm (5' 5.7") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Ask me later | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Cape Town Metro (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
46 - 58 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
175cm (5' 8.9") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown; Black; Greying; Grey; White; Balding | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Legal; Medical / Dental; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Technical / Science / Engineering; Other; Agriculture | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Instrumental; Jazz; New Age; Opera; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
Non-fiction |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Nature / Wildlife; Reality shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Documentary |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Painting; Photography; Shopping; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Badminton; Birdwatching; Bodyboarding; Hiking; Running; Squash; Stand Up Paddleboarding; Surf skiing/kayaking; Table Tennis; Tennis; Walking; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; Greek; Indian; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
Once or twice a week |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I don't have any family |
Family Closeness: |
My friends are my main family |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Long hair; Power; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |